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Scarlett Murray
An exploration into my experiences of having a physical disability.
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Dearly Bear: The Toy with the Same Disability as Me
‘We’ve got to find her.’ I say, slightly pleadingly. Mum and I feel like we’re going to pass out in the hot stuffiness of the loft. Mum...
Scarlett Murray
Apr 28, 20223 min read
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Mummy's Arms
When Scarlett's daughter was born, she did not see her as disabled, she just saw her as Mummy. This changed how Scarlett viewed herself.
Scarlett Murray
Mar 27, 20223 min read
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My Parents and My Disability: Not Too Many Complaints
‘Why? Why? But why? No really, why?’ I have a distinct memory of a conversation I struck up with my mother. I knew that I was disabled. I...
Scarlett Murray
Feb 24, 20225 min read
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Tips for Parenting with Limited Use of One Hand
When I was pregnant with my daughter, I spent a lot of time agonising over how I would physically care for her. Babies are needy,...
Scarlett Murray
Feb 10, 20225 min read
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'I Did It': How My Disability Has Made Me a More Compassionate Parent
‘I did it!’ shouts my two-year-old daughter. She does a vigorous jig to the music the doorbell emits. She presses it again, ‘I did it!’...
Scarlett Murray
Nov 18, 20214 min read
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Breastfeeding with Hemiplegia
Tentatively, the student midwife tries to reposition my left hand so that it is holding the baby. My left hand fails to flatten against...
Scarlett Murray
Oct 21, 20214 min read
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